tips so fingering doesnt hurt??

hey im a virgin..and ive tried fingering myself and it hurts!..and i can barley get my finger in..what can i do or use so it wont hurt.bcuz i plan on havin sex with my b/f and i dont want it to hurt when he sticks it in..my friends told me it really hurts the 1st daysss...i dont want that..what can i do?

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How old are you anyway? You are probably too young to be worrying about sex. Wait. You won't regret waiting.

if you dont want it to hurt, then let him put it in your butt
wow! Unbelievable. Do you really exist?
it's gonna hurt anyway. but it gets better. I suppose you could use something else, a vibrator or whatnot, before hand, but it'll hurt, too. Nothing else to do!
Don't give up hope. Take a break and try again later!
Make sure your finger nails are trimmed and don't have any sharp edges. Relax before putting it in so it doesn't hurt so much. I hate to break it to you but it'll hurt the first time anyway. When it comes to it take it slow, relax, and make sure your boyfriend gives you lots of foreplay.
lube it up lovey! sometimes your body doesn't produce enough of its own lubrication if your not 'horny' enough. and remember to relax, this will help. But no matter what you do it will always be a bit uncomfortable your fist few times. (it gets better)
try using a tampon first, then step up in size as you ge tmore comfortable. hymens are highly over rated
use some KY on your finger when your bf puts his penis in your vagina it hurts the first time after that it does not
sex only hurts a bit for the first couple of times and then it doesnt after that. but yeah make sure there is lots of foreplay otherwise u might end up being very dissapointed
Your own fingers - still you require a lot of foreplay for sufficient lubrication. But nothing like a penis, even it hurts a bit still more enjoyable.
take it in the pooper
If you don't want it to hurt the first time, get really drunk. You'll never know if it hurts or not.
one shouldn't stuck their finger into the vaginal at the first go ! like making love need to have foreplay, fingering required you to be first aroused, hence you have to go slow, fantasize[ or watching porn ], touch your others body parts for a start, then nipples n vaginal should be the last step[ make sure your hand is cleaned ] ! you bf or husband should do the same [ if they are experience then they would know ], thats foreplay n he shouldn't rush during penetration, if its hurt the lady then he should stop, continue fingering n play like kissing, suck/lick the nipples, go slow , gentle n tender is the way to treat the virgin !
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