when a virgin has sex and wen her cherry gets popped does that hurt and do u bleed 4 a long time?
ive heard from sum gurls that it hurt and sum gurls that it doesnt ive heard that u bleed and sumtime u dont bleed as long as the guy is doin it right and ( not that i do this or anyting i really dont ) but can u pop it with ur finger if u were fingerin urself?? i really wanna kno but i really havent done this thats y im askin im only 14
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I don't remember bleeding much, but it hurt and hurt a lot for several times.
Please try to wait until you are older as there are many risks such as teen pregnancy, STD's, and broken hearts as men lie and use girls a lot.
Go to the library and get a book called "why wait" by Josh McDowell, I read this and taught my kids and my son remained a virgin until age 22 and the other 18 (with a girl he loved) which is pretty old nowadays.
I only wish this book had been around when I was young as it tells the many, important reasons to wait and I would have had I read it. (I was 17)
yes for some girl the it bleed more than others
use of tampons, exercise, or insertion of objects into the vagina can tear the hymen. it's just a little bit of tissue.
well yeah u bleed for along time! but yeah it do hurt sumtimes
No you do not bleed for a long time, but sex for the first time can hurt that is why you want to be with someone who really loves you and you are MUCH older. If they really love you then they will extra gentle with you.
for one you should really wait and have sex but if that is what you want to do then it hurts only a little bit and you only spot you don't bleed for a long time. no it can not be popped by getting fingered or fingering yourself. the only way it doesn't hurt is if you were in gymnastics and your cherry is already popped and if you are flexible and if you can do a split then your hymen is already popped.
What you are talking about is called at Hymen. It is a thin layer of skin inside your vagina. It can be broken with fingers -if someone put their fingers way up inside you-the result would be pain and then some skin and blood. You would not bleed for days and days. If you tore skin off your arm that would hurt. Similarly, this is what you experience down there. It doesn't hurt for a long time.
My advice to you is to be very very careful whom you allow to touch you. Right now, you are 14 years old. Sex and experiences are new and exciting and you may be very curious about them. That is normal. Having sex because everyone else is, though, is NOT GOOD. I PROMISE you. When you hear from girls you know about sex, you may feel like you are missing out on something or that they have something you don't. What I want to assure you is that although they may have experienced something you haven't yet, the truth is, that YOU have something THEY DON'T. Your virginity is a very valuable thing. Preserve it. It is easier to tell a man no when you are a virgin. Boys and men respect that. Once you have done it, you will expected to do it.
By having sexual intercourse, you open yourself to a variety of problems you may not be ready for. There are diseases out there that condoms do not prevent, such as Herpes, Warts, and Molluscum, which is little red bumps. Those are skin diseases. You introduce the ability to get pregnant. Accidents do happen, condoms sometimes break. Sometimes, you want to have it so bad that you think you can do it without a condom and it will be ok.
My advice to you is to wait as long as possible no matter what your friends think. Wait until you are in a serious relationship with a boy-and that means you ahve been seeing only each other for many months-possibly even a year. At this time, enjoy kissing, enjoy experimenting a little, but don't put yourself in a position where everything can happen. That's the best way to avoid it. That, and don't get drunk at parties. Even the nicest girls do things they regret later because they had a lot to drink and lost their judgement.
Your body is just waking up to new feelings and urges. Understand that it is normal, but that acting on those urges or not is what separates you from an animal in the wild. Use your head. If your friends brag about their experiences, find other friends who are admittedly virgins or who are more reserved.
Good luck, sweetheart. Remember-you have something special. Keep it as long as you can.
ok the "cherry " breaking doesnt hurt it's the actuall Penis in the vagina that hurts the first couple times .And the bleeding can vary .What the guy does or doesnt do doesnt control anything having to do with your "cherry" but the guy does control how painful your first time will be depending on how rough he gets .And it is possible to break your "cherry" when anything is inserted into your vagina .
The first time I had sex it did hurt, but only at the start because he knew what he was doing. I bled during (there was a stain left on his mattress). Afterwards, I bled and was sore for three days.
By the way, I had my first time when I was 32. The older you are, the easier your first time is; both physically and emotionally.
At 14 you have a lot more to worry about than sex. There's no rush and everyone is NOT doing it. That's peer pressure. Wait until you're older and ready for the responsibilities that go with having sex like birth control and STDs.
When you are old enough to spell words correctly, maybe people will take your questions more seriously. You are not old enough to be worrying about all of this.
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