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Ok.. I just found out today that my 12 yr old friend got raped she didn't tell any1 but me and another friend and she got raped about 10 moths ago. She didnt tell her mom or any 1 else exept us. I told her 2 tell some1 and she said it was 2 long ago . What do I do?

Answers:
Tell.

tell somebody
Call rape hotline!!
tell somone!!
Tell a female cop who specializes in rape.
still tell someone. my friend had that same problem and still does but its important that you tell someone anywase instead of letting them get depressed about what happend that they think that have no control of in any way. get her some justice and put the pervert in jail.
GO TO THE POLICE!!
ASAP!
Go with her to the police station and tell her to say everything if she accepts while shes with the police go ahead and call her parents IT WOULD REALLY HELP.
run dont walk to a counselor (school - i assume you are young also) and tell, tell, tell!
Tell her that it is never too late. Be there for her and encourage to take a stand and be ready to hold her up to smack the bastard down. She will need help, and don't be too pushy or you'll lose her but if she doesn't act then he is going to do this again.
let her stay in control. she was the one who was raped. just suggest that she tell other ppl and keep pushing her.
Support her. Don't tell UNLESS you see that this is bothering her more than she says. If this is the case, tell her you want to get her help, and then tell a counselor or other adult who can get her help. Go with her to a Dr. or whatever it takes to show you are her friend.
I would talk to your mom or your counselor at school and seek advice from a professional or an adult. Your friend needs help and you are in a position to help her the best that you can.
tell her mother/father. encourage her to do it but do it if she won't. let her know it's not her fault and that she needs to speak to an adult she can trust - hopefully a parent. best of luck to ya'll.
It was not to long ago. She better tell someone before it happens to someone else.
Please have her to tell her Mom or some one this need to be reported so the person who did this is put in jail!! He could be out there hurting other girl!!
This is very serious indeed. You should really talk to her about telling someone. Explain that you are concerned about long term affect this could have. You are probably also concerned about losing her friendship if you tell someone yourself but I think you should because like I said, it might not affect her right now (which I'm sure it is) but it will definately affect her in her years to come.
go to her parents and tell them what has happened with her ,,its important that they know ..be supportive of her tell her you will help her by going with her ,,this person that has violated her needs to be punished for what they have done ..the authorities should be told so that this wont happen to anyone else !
Tell your Mom or Caregiver. NOW! If they do nothing, tell her parents or caregiver ( unless, well, you know) if that's a no go tell a teacher, a councilor at school.. Just keep telling until something is done!
Explain to her that she has nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to be scared of. This is not her fault. And that it's not too late! Tell her that by reporting this person she may be saving another girl from going through what she has went through. Offer your support, be there for her.

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It's so good to see that you are so concerned, a lot of ppl are so busy with their own lives they just don't care about anyone else. You are a good friend. :)
It's never too late to report being raped. Even YEARS after the fact. and creeps are still convicted. If the concern is that it was someone she knew or a family member, it's still JUST as wrong and needs to be reported.

This is a lifelong burden for her. and if she doesn't deal with it inside and outside, with the support of her family, physician and a good therapist, she will only be in more emotional pain as an adult for hiding it.

Also, she needs to be checked for sexually transmitted diseases. Some can be transmitted and not even show symptoms right away but she could later pass the disease on to a partner or a baby or it could affect her fertility or overall health for years.

In a word. tell. Tell your mom. Tell a guidance counselor. Tell the police. Tell her that you are telling or that you told. She might get really mad at first. but you need to do the right thing for her. She's not able to choose the right thing for herself right now because of the pain of the experience.

Tell.
its never too late. Remind her that the rapist maybe victimizing other innocent little girls and boys. It should be reported immediately. There is nothing to be ashamed about, she is not the only one. Tell her to go to group therapy. It will be very helpful especially if she gets involved in a future relationship.
It is never too long ago to tell someone. Granted, they will have less of a chance to catch the person responsible, but there is always that chance.
First you need to sit her down and talk to her about it, and have her confront her parents. Let her do it, otherwise you may break her trust and she may never confide in you again.
From there, her parents should take care of it. They should call the police, who will ask your friend if she knew what the person looked like, and to describe his details (Facial and body-Height/weight) to her best memory. After that, they may ask her other needed questions, and she may have to go to the hospital to be checked out for injuries cause by the actions..



I am very sorry to hear about your friend, and I hope that the..Well, I hope he gets caught.
She must go to a trusting adult be it her mom, or your mom, a teacher, school counselor, find someone its not to late. The person who violated her can't be stopped if she doesn't speak up.
Tell her you will be with her when she confides in that adult, she needs your help. Be a good friend and help her. I know its scary,but its the right thing to do, even if she doesn't want that person to get in trouble; what that person did was soooooo wrong!
i would let it fade away to a buried memory.
There is no proof now. Just don't believe everything you hear either. She might be testing you all in secrecy. You need to keep your word of keeping quiet. Its not you. So keep your secret true.
If it happens again to her then get evidence and proof and consult an adult right away !
I went through the same thing as a kid and I didn't tell anyone until it was too late. he had done it to someone else. Now as an adult with children of my own, I would hate to think that one of my kids would keep something like this to themselves. People that do those kinds of things will make threats but they cant follow through on those threats from a jail cell. People like that are very weak and need help also.
I think that your friend should at least tell her mom.
This person can hurt someone else.
I also think that your a great friend! I am sure that your friend feels good being able to tell someone and have someone to talk to about it.
Email me if you have any other questions. cvsanmarcos3@sbcglobal.net
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