i am depressed?

i am depressed. my parents are getting a divorce, there alot of things going on in my life and i am tired of all of it. its getting really annoying. i cant focus or do anything, things are no longer fun. i am just tired.

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Can I answer you from the point of view of being a parent of two kids that I LOVE DEARLY, and yet whose mother ran off with them and divorced me? I can truly tell you, swear "on a stack of Bibles" as the old saying goes, I CAN TRULY UNDERSTAND AND APPRECIATE WHAT YOU FEEL NOW. I know my kids, now in their 20's, went through years of tough times as me and their mother bad-mouthed each other, drug the other one into court so sue for more "child support", and remarried several times as a bad reaction to the divorce. It took my son until he was 20 or 21 before he could tell me how depressed and upset he was about the way we acted, and I can tell you how incredibly sorry I am that their mother and I could have possibly put them through all that, since we allegedly loved them as much as we said we did. And believe me, we both do LOVE our kids, extremely, but we were both too self-centered / immature to behave like truly loving parents and spouses. I'm not sure what I can do, if anything, to help you get through the tough times that I know you're experiencing. I liked Rag Doll X's answer when she said to do what makes you happy, EXCEPT DRUGS OR ALCOHOL OR OTHER SELF DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR. And maybe going to McDonald's isn't the healthiest thing to do, but it's not too self destructive at your age. We, and by that I mean parents, DO LOVE OUR CHILDREN VERY MUCH. We just are too damned immature at times to act like it, and I can tell you that WE NEED YOUR FORGIVENESS VERY MUCH. If you know Jesus our Christ, pray for us. We, all of us, one day come to the realization of how messed up we made things, and how we hurt our kids. We need your prayers. Not that things will turn around automatically, but MIRACLES DO HAPPEN. Praying to God, Jesus our Christ, will bring you the strongest Power in your corner, and I know you need Him now, so DO IT!! I wish I could tell my kids what I'm telling you now, but I'm not sure they'd believe it or want to hear it from me. I just ask your forgiveness, as one adult to one heartbroken and depressed child. Maybe together we can heal the hurt around us, the hurt in us and the hurt in others. I'm sure thankful for your question today. I pray God Blesses you for all times!

run away and join the circus
im sorry, i felt the same for a long time, Try just doing some things for you. Whatver makes you happy do it. If you want to go to MCdonalds and pig out on the dollar menu do it, If this depression last too long you should c a docter, Whatever you do dont turn to drugs.
I am sorry to hear that you are depressed. I have suffered from it for many years and it's no fun. If it gets worse or even stays the same for a long time I advise you to talk to someone you can trust or go to see your doctor. I hope you will soon feel better.
yeah i think the circus would be a good experience for you as well.
You should talk to a good friend, or, even better, your school counsellor or your family doctor. They can help you with your feelings. don't worry, what you're feeling is completely normal for someone in your shoes. But you do need to talk to someone and, if it lasts longer than a few weeks, you may need more help than that (your doctor can help you more).. I know this sounds silly, right now, but please know that you wont always feel this way and things will get better, take care of yourself til then!
if i were u i would talk it out wiht someone.. someone ur close to.. maybe even ur parents sit and talk to them.. maybe try a best friend or a counslior.. 'dont now if i spelled that right' but seriously its not good to keep things in it will cause u 2 be more depressed.. talk it out wiht someone.. hope it gets better for u! Good luck!
Most likely sweetie u are you need not to stress so mush just think about what is brothering u that u have control over and fix that problem and other things like your parents divorce that's there problem not yours. so take a deep breath and relax to yourself you fell better. Also do thing that u like to do to get your mind off of things.
You may be depressed. Certainly being sad that your parents are going to divorce can negatively effect you.

You sound like you are still in school. Talk to a teacher, councilor or nurse. See if they have someone at the school who can help you.
Don't sweat all that stuff, i know that you're parents getting divorced is a major drag but its not you're fault and everything will work out in the end. Life is full of obstacles and this is just one of many. SMILE:) and good luck!
well try to get involved in school if you are still in school talk to your parents about how you feel get a girlfriend
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