I'm depressed.I think it's the end of the world everytime my girl and i have an argument. Which meds?Advice?
This is the first serious relationship that I have been in since i got divorced a little over a year ago. When this new girl and I are together I feel like I am in heaven. I go crazy when I am not with her. The smallest things make me think that our relationship is over and then when I see her again I'm flying high. Please let me know how you have dealt with any similar emotions. Drugs? Relationship advice?
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I know how you feel. I have been there.I am there at times. I know what it feels like to see the one you love walk away even if its to go to work and, all you want to do is hold them for a sec longer.
I dont think that drugs are a solution to the problem. I think that you need to be able to trust your partner and have more confidence in yourself. Talk with your [partner and express how you feel. and find the source of your arguements.. a lot of times it will stem from lack of trust, or lack of confidence in yourself.
Believe in yourself and in both of you and you will come together.
good luck
life is too short to worry about bull crap like that, you need to grow up and be happy with yourself, no offense, but you asked.
relaaaxxxx.. if you're always uptight believe me you'll end up losing the girl. just be cool and enjoy life! dont be too clingy or possesive or whatever it is that you feel and think that'll make the relationship bad.. you should know enough since you got divorced already.. learn from past mistakes.
you suffer from codependance with an anxiety disorder.. when you're not with her do you get really upset to the point that your hands shake or you get forgetful and can't concentrate? when you're together do you hang on her every word and literally live and breath for some sign of affection from her like a hug or kiss? are you passive aggressive, i.e.: "where have you been? why didn't you answer your phone? oh baby i'm sorry, i just love you and want to make sure your ok"?
talk to a relationship therapist. alone. this sounds scary at first but your condition will only get worse. there is light at the end of this tunnel and you'll feel wonderful once the emotional weight is lifted.
good luck.
Hey buddy I think that you may be a little love struck! I don't think that you need medications for it. I think that this girl just makes you happy and you want to spend more time with her but when you don't see her for a day or two you think that the world is over. I am bipolar and I do the same thing with a guy that I have been seeing for eight years. When I don't see him I always think that he is with someone else. He has had a hard life and therefore he tries to be on the hard side but i do know that he does love me, even when we aren't together. I have found a little trick with him lately. He seems to get jealous when other men come around. They are just a friend but it happens to be his brother in law. All of a sudden he is jealous. I told his brother in law to stay away because he has a severe drug problem. If I don't call him for a day or two he calls me. All of a sudden he has a new interest in me and I kinda like it this way. Its different because I used to be the one doing all of the chasing. I am 46 and have been married THREE times and believe me I am not looking for a husband maybe just someone that I can spend my time with for the rest of my life and i know that sounds weird but i don't think that marriage and I were meant for each other. I sometimes feel like a three time loser. My second husband really wants to get back together but I spend two days with him and remember why I divorced him. LOL sorry I hope that you get it right with this lady and Good Luck. Hey don't let anyone tell you that you need meds all you need is LOVE!
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