im always getting guilty &insecure.what is this mean & what shall i do?
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You have low self esteem and are perhaps a very empathetic person who can understand alot of problems. However, you can't let everyone else's probelms effect you or let you carry the guilt. You are probably very worried about what others think of you and are always questioning yourself.
Somewhere in yourself you need to find your inner person who has likes and dislikes of their own, who doesn't care about others, and who will stand up for themselves if something happens to them they don't like.
Your life wiill go on despite what any one else may think. if you ever feel guilt or insecure about a situation, just think if you had been around totally different people or in a different place how differently your feelings could have been. In fact, if you had never been in the situation you wouldn't have those negative thoughts. And life would have went on a few moments later for you despite feeling those feelings. The reality is that situations will occur beyond your countrol but you can control how you choose to feel about them or let them control your life. If something makes you feel insecure or negative tell yourself that in a few moments, the feeling won't matter, and it shouldn't. Also, your feelings and how you view life is special to you and you only. no one else will know what you are thinking or may even care. thats why you need to take care of you and make yourself happy because god knows no one else knows the right way
It means that in your past someone has undermined your decisions and feelings or made you feel guilty. You need to build some self confidence, so you can stand strong against the opposition. On the other hand, a little amount of guilt is your conscience telling you right from wrong. There needs to be a balance though. It may help to talk to a counselor. You can bounce these things off of him/her and they can do cognitive therapy to change your negative thinking habits.
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