How do I help my two friends,repair there friendship that is now strained?

My two friends have known each other since late 2002. She is 29 and he is 20. They would do friend stuff like hang out at game shops,anime club,other places,talk about anything and everything on there minds,even share what would be bothering them at the time. After holiday weekend (12/26/05) that all changed,he'd stop e-mailing,IMing,calling on the phone,hanging out,etc. She didn't know why this happened to her,it didn't happen to me or anyone else both of them knew. I do know that those kind of actions,hurt her (still do) deeply inside. He never gave a reason why he was doing that to her.

Around April of this year,she offered a carpool to her friends to a regional up in MN. He aggreed to it,but then less than a week later he told another friend (behind her back) that he wasn't going to be carpooling with her but taking his car instead. When she heard that it hurt her deeply he said,did this without talking about to her in person.

Answers:
i know your trying to help but it's best to stay out of it!
or invite them over and hang out and let them lash it out infront of you as a mentor!
But with stuff like this for your self stay out of it
Trust me lost lots of friends that way!

repair?.just give him a place.
He's just being a guy and not seeing that she's reaching out to him - thinking that she's being clingy or smothering or something.

Has he got a gf different to this girl?

Is this entirely your business?
This has gone far enough. If she is hurting herself she needs to see a therapist PRONTO. This is not something a well meaning friend can help with any longer, except to tell her honestly that she is frightening you and you want to help her get into therapy RIGHT NOW. Make it sound like a favor to you that she goes - she may not have enough self esteem right now to think she deserves the help.

Whatever you do don't encourage her to talk to this guy anymore. Everything that's happened between them seems to be making things worse. Let her get some therapy under her belt and let the professional make the call as to whether it would be healthy for her to see him ever again.
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