What I meant was how do I let someone to whom i have taken for granted the streangth of our relationship that

I became diabetic type 1 over two years ago. I felt guilty placing any burden on my girlfriend. I withdrew and at times pushed her away in the face of my pain. My sexual disfunction has killed my confidence. Now, When hardship has fallen her way, I find myself faced with putting all my fears and insecurities on hold and place all my streanghts towards helping her

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It could be too late.but you should give it a try. Tell her what you explained here and honestly admit that now you know how it would feel to push someone away when they are in pain. When you found out about the diabetes you were unfair in shoving her and her opinion aside to make your own decisions. You must be ready to possibly receive the same from her now. However, if you are sincere, and approach her with all sincerity and explain it all.I'm betting she would forgive you. You have got to at least give it a try or else you'll be bugged wondering your whole life.

Best of luck.and never, ever, do that to her again in the future. That is not how 'couple' is defined. Couples communicate and decide together.


When the going got tough, you pushed her away. Why should she trust that you won't do the same again? What concrete evidence exists to show her that you mean business? Otherwise, the words are hollow.
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