Has anybody ever cut before?
Cut as in, cutting there arm.
I did it almost a year back for about 5 months. I got cought and the police threatened to throw me into protective custody if I didnt stop. SO I did. (It was a very small town)
But something in my life is making me want to do it again..
Has anybody done it before? whats your opinion on it? Sorry if its a sensitive subject to some of you.
Answers:
This is a very difficult issue to understand, unless you've been there before.
I did for many years! As an adult, I still fight the urge from time to time.
If you already quit, you shouldn't give in again. It's an addiction and you may have to fight off the urges for a long time. Just be strong and don't give in!
Best of luck to you!☺
Don't! Please. You are important and can get through. I'm having a hard time too but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. And that is ultimately up to you.
My brother did it. he has cuts all over his arm. i don't know why he did it. but he stopped doing it.
You should tell someone I have never done it before but I know its bad Good Luck
I used to do it a long time ago but, i wouldnt do it again there is so much more out there that stops me do it, what weaned me off it was the elastic band thing, if you wear an elastic band round your wrist and ping it every time you want to cut your self then that shud help!
my son did it last year as well it was his way of dealing with his anger instead of yelling and fighting he would cut his....talk to someone with a phd they can help..
ive done it but i dont sugguest you doing it becuase after a wile you build a tollerance to it, then you will move to more radical things, in my case i burnt my arm with a red hot peiice of steal, then one night i almost killed myself, i highly sugguest you find another way to releive stress because the way you are going might end badly
its called self-mutilation, it is an addiction of some sort, i dont want to air your dirty laundry, but people that cut themselves mare usually trying to stop some kind of mental pain, trying to punish themselves, usually people that have been molested as children do this, try to get some counseling that should help, i will pray for you
There are MANY things in someone's life that can make them want to do anything to make the pain go away. But, cutting yourself isn't the answer (and I'm sure you've heard that one before). You need to work through your feelings and your situation and learn to deal with the hard things in a productive manner. If you can't talk to anyone at home, ask your parents to go to a counselor, so you can talk there. The point is, you need to get your hurt and pain out, deal with it, and move on. Cutting should not be an option - don't hurt yourself.
Your body is WHAT you are IN, not WHO you are...
It's like damaging the paint job on your "car".
Check out information of SPIRITUAL WARFARE. not every feeling you have is true.
It is up to YOU to choose what feelings or thoughts that you believe or act upon.
God made you and God doesn't make junk.
Blessings.
Yes I have several times. You do it because of depression just like me.
I've never done that before, and I have never wanted to. I don't think I will either. No offense to you or anyone who does it, but I think that it should not be done and it is unhealthy for you. You could get REALLY bad infections or perminent scares.
yeah, I have before.its was about 3 weeks ago, my ex and I got into a huge fight and I couldnt deal with all the pain he was putting me through!!
The pain you are experiencing must be very intense. You do it because the physical pain hides the mental. But it will not hide it forever. You must deal with your problems headon. Get some friends to talk to.good friends. Talk to a counselor or psychologist. You are not crazy or weird or beneath us. We all have our own problems and no one is perfect. There is more than one way to deal with problems. Thank god, cutting isnt the only way.
i have. you need to learn how to cope with this urge. we cant control what happens to us but in a split second we get to decide how we will respond to it. you need to recongnize what is triggering this behavior and control your reaction.
i dont think you wnat to kill yourself but, www.suicide.com will help i think. the way they describe suicide will make you think plz, go to the website and feel free to contact me anytime.
it could be that this is ur way of dealing with something in ur life that's highly upsetting to u. by cutting urself, u're relieving all the pent-up stress &/or anger, sadness, etc. u should seek psychiatric help to see if maybe therapy or meds could help u deal more safely with these feelings.
i used to cut.. it filled some sort of need in me at the time. but it is a sick way to fill a need... you need to find out why you want to hurt yourself and then nurture yourself instead.
try dialectical behavioral therapy...it is used for borderline personality disorder but can be used by anybody. it helps one stop self injuring..
yea i have and still do its kinda like the only pain you can control do it again my life it it helps keep doing but not to much and not so much noticeable on legs or inside.side of arms.im not tellin you to do it but kinda look at why you do it in the first place and does it help or make it worse
No, I haven't. Do I look like a moron? Wait a minute, better not answer that.
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I've not done it, but you are not alone. I've seen a few people who cut themsleves.
Two of my best friends used to cut. It's a really bad thing to do. Why anyone would want to hurt themselves is beyond me.
For as long as I can remember I have been a cutter. I never do it to kill myself either. When I cut myself, I can turn mental pain into physical pain and I can better deal with that. For me it's always been a release, I actually feel better if I do it. I haven't done it in about a year now. It's definetly not healthy behavior, but I completly understand where you are coming from.
It is a sensitive subject, but a serious one. I use to cut for years. And i had to deal with the consequences. The reason behind cutting is serious. You need to talk to someone, deal with what is making you want to cut.
Cutting is only a way to hide some kind of pain that is too unbearable to deal with. people cut to cover the inside pain with an outside pain.
i cut my best freind cheese and at him
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my opinion on it?
um dont do it
you can kills yourself
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Remember it stems from how you see your life and how you feel about yourself. The "feeling" you get from it is an attempt to escape life, like drugs. No one will ever be like you. This is your time on Earth and no one elses. Make the best of it, who needs anymore headaches? Find a trusting person and have mini therapy meetings with them .Peace.
Hi, hang in there, my daughter did it when she was in early teens and now has scars on her wrists. You don't say how old you are but in my daughters case we had to just be there for her and she eventually grew out of it. Please talk to someone because I am sure you will come through it, a lot of willpower is needed and hopefully you have someone to help you, someone you can go to when the need to self harm gets too great.
I wrote on myself once. i wrote on myself untill o bled. I then ran alcohol over it and it was weird but the pain i felt was good. But that was when I was depressed and mad. I still have the scar ( It's small now though, I'm trying to get rid of it). It was a name I wrote on me. I wrote it on my leg. I used a regular pen too. the ink wasnt coming out so i just wrote over and over on the same spot. it was like when you write really hard on a piece of paper over and over well thats what happened to my skin. I was super depressed. I still get a bit depressed now but not to the point where i hurt myself, well maybe i do i punch the walls and kick the walls and furniture around me. I only do these things when i get depressed and when I'm alone. when I am with someone else i just sit and daydream.(only when I'm down i do this)
don't do it any more find something else that you could do to release what ever it is you have. ok LOVE
This is coming from a loving parent.you are a special person, you are loved and you will love more people then you could ever imagine, there is so much more to life then you could ever imagine. Life is hard very hard for the most part, and you will struggle and get threw it and you will move on..You need help more help the we can give you..you are hurting inside and you need to talk to someone, someone that can help you understand your illness.you need to see a councilor or a doctor hopefully both.talk to your parents make them understand your pain..talk to someone that can help you.please you are loved.
I have a sister who use to do that. It is not good for you to hurt anyone, least of all yourself. I will tell you the same thing I told her. God loves you! God loves us so much that he sent his only begotten son to save us from our sins. Take your troubles to God in prayer, he will help you. If you need someone to help you pray, seek out a minister, go to any church. I will pray for you!! I know god answers prayers, he may not answer right away, and sometimes it may not be the answer we are looking for but he does answer. And all the pain and suffering we endure, just make us stronger and better Christians.
Sweetie, my daughter used to cut when she was having some problems about a year ago. It's a very emotional release. So obviously you are having an issue in your life currently that is making you want to be self destructive or hurt yourself. You are right cutting generally isn't about suicide it's about pain. Do yourself the biggest favor and call a hotline, find out what the real problem is as hard as it may be I bet you already know & just don't know how or are afraid to confront it. It wont be easy but it will be freeing. You will be a healthier person for it in the long run. Fear is our worst enemy, doubt comes next. Know that you are worth being treated with respect and that it starts with you. I'm justjodechi on yahoo if you need to talk anytime. Be strong, believe in you! Here's a quote from Eleanor Roosevelt that I love "No one can make you feel inferior without your permission" Just think about that for a few minutes and then start giving yourself the respect you deserve.
I have. Started during my junior year of high school (I'm now a sophomore in college). I haven't done it in several weeks.
Cutting is both destructive and addictive. It's not a good way to deal with things, but it provides a temporary release. That temporary release is addictive; I haven't found anything that works as well. But, clearly, injuring yourself i harmful to your body, and isn't a good thing to do.
Don't start cutting again. It won't solve anything, and once you start, it's really hard to stop. Try putting a rubber band or hair tie around your wrist, and snap it against your skin when you want to cut. It hurts, and provides some of the same release that cutting does, but doesn't really harm your body very much.
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