i live on my own and have done for a year, i feel lonely all the time and crave company to end my solitude?

but because of my anxiety problems and panic and low self worth and anger rage problems, its not easy to do anything about this..i waiting for a mental health evaluation from a psych....plus i live in a very noisy area with alot of antisocial behaviour so i struggle to be at peace and tranquility...plus im being rejected and ignored all the time on myspace by ' every' girl i leave a nice message for, my photos are on myspace so they can see wat i look like.and it feels like a kick in the teeth, and a conspiracy the way no one is approaching me..some girl yesteday called me desperate, and i hate to admit thats exactley how i feel..as anyone else been in a predicament like this?

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Trust me, from my own experience, girls smell desperation and lack of self-confidence. That's the problem!

As soon as you fall in love hard for one single girl, or get a really interesting hobby, anything that causes you to stop paying 'special attention' to everyone you meet, they will be all over you.

Just be confident, be yourself, and remember that you should look for someone that suits your personality and you deserve, not to anything that has long hair and a vagina. As soon as you raise your standards and stop trying to please every girl around you, they will start to see you in a more interesting light.
Until then, get a really cool hobby, or a pet.

same problem here. not sure what i am going to do about it.
every body has a point in there life like that some how. i personally have been there a little bit but not full blown out like yourself. it will be okay you will find a companion. trust me. everybody has somebody and the day will come, maybe not soon enough but it will come. if you need some body to talk to, email me. untill then, hang in there :)
Well, I have been in a similar situation. I have felt alone, and tierd, and restless and found myself crying for no reason other than for everything, and anything, and nothing. I live on the main street in town, so i hear a lot too. What helped me was getting out of the house (ok, crappy apt.) I started to try new things, kind of like a bet with myself, just to make me do it, and I haven't regretted it. I eat a lot better, and feel a lot better too. You hear studies of how exercise helps more than your physical health, and I absolutely believe it's true. Some things you might want to try to make yourself feel a little better are *blog, at least you get things off your chest, *join a gym, or go for a walk, even if you don't become best buds with the people there, you will still feel better for going, *eat more fruits and veggis
those things worked for me
i wish you the best of luck,
and make sure you keep your mental health apointments
SO WATCHA DO IS.#1 GET A PAIR OF EAR PLUGS OR HEAD PHONES. #2 GO TO YAHOO PERSONALS. BUT I'D DEFINITLY WORK ON THE ANGER/RAGE PROBLEMS. U'LL BE OK. AND YOU KNOW WHAT.UR NOT DESPERATE.UR LONELY. THERE'S LOTS OF US LIKE THAT.
i want a chick at times but it sucks. try nolongerlonely.com or try me dogmicjoe@yahoo.com
I can relate to how you feel as i have the same problems as you. I am Bipolar and i also have an anxiety disorder and have panic attacks too. I hate being alone too the best way i have found to attack it before it attacks me is to spend time with my animals. They make great friends if you don't have a dog try it.
TO RELAX, try lighting candles and listening to classical music
first thing , don't go on my space if you're getting bad feedback!! Try just chatting on the computer or playing online games. I have anxiety and depression and am on medication for these, and it is helping. I still have social anxiety, and have problems with meeting people, and being in crowds. Even with my own family!! to find a peaceful place, I do meditation with music so I don't hear outside disturbance. It's hard to do, but try it , it works. You sound like you ARE desparate, but desparate for relief from your illness, not desparate for attention. I am alone too, but starting to like myself, so others can like me too. Hang in there, get the help you need, and good luck!!
Hello and I feel for you and you are going through allot. First and foremost you may wish to look at self esteem issues first. From what I have observed they seem to solve a bevy of issues just in and of itself. As for meeting others contact works best and doing it on the computer opens you up to even more issues there is a reason most are on here in the dating sites. Women can and do sense a desperate person and they tend to shy away from that as they want a self assured person. I cant give you a bunch of hints here but try to work on the self esteem and maybe anger and that will solve many issues.
I hate that you are feeling that way but I have the answer you need. God. He is all we need. Look into it. You never have to be alone. He is always there. He is the only one that truly answers are desperate calls for help. You will be in my prayers. ~Dawn
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