Does anyone hate being around their own family members?

Do you feel uncomfortable being in the same room as them? If so, did you have a rough past? I feel that way and just wanted to know if thats why I'm so f*cked up.

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I don't think youre f-d up.. They are!

I have so much resentment toward so many in my family. So I keep them clear out of my life! My mom had 8 kids! I only keep in touch with my mom, one sister and of course my twin who lives just around the corner.

I can say with honesty that I wouldn't WASTE my money on going to any of the others funeral.

Sad to say, but I like my in-laws better then my own blood kin.
i guess not.
I love being around my family.
I never have hated bein around my family, i love my family and i love bein around them
yes , yes and yes it is, the best thing I think to do is get away from them and stay away from them, thats what Im working on. but I must say its a long time comming. because Im in my 40's now and still havent left them behind. I will though. I will I will I will!
yes. I have disowned my asshole sister. won't speak to her ever again. I disowned my old man 6 months before he died a justifiable death.
I will not stand for abuse within my own family.
I am stronger for it.
Yes my brother
Lord yes! I'm always uncomfortable around my family, and I hate it. Some of them are cool. Yes, I had a rough life, and its still rough! But ya cant let it control you! :) Im learning that now! Slowly but surely, it all comes together.
I didn't have a rough past..that I know of at least. I just don't get along with one of my aunts. She is a horrible person! I avoid family gatherings because of her. :(
I have felt this way, even though I love them as a family, but still have been often uncomfortable as you say. I didn't have a rough past and was a spoiled child and really don't have a reason to dislike them. It's just that I find it harder to relate to them than to strangers etc.I only wish I could. So I can't give you a reason why you feel the way you do.
Man your family can **** you up!!, and yes you can can hate your family there ppl too and you never know they might hate you too. Just start a new life without them.
Family can be a pain because they remember everything you've ever done and won't hold back a minute of throwing it in your face. I think a person really needs to leave family behind for a time in order to truly discover oneself.
Probably is why you are so fudged up. In general it is harder to be around your family than it is strangers. Your family expects certain things and if you do not live up to it the family is disappointed. Strangers are not because they expect nothing. But worse yet I hate being around my in laws. Maybe I expected to much from them/ or they from me. But I can tell you that after 40 years of going to my mother in laws house to be insulted was enough. I have not been there for more than five years. Now the old mother in law is in a wheel chair has had a stroke that left a smile on her fact. Which is more than she ever had in her life time. What I got from my sister in law was not to talk about her family. What she does not realize is that I have been a part of that family for 45 years. I have gained the privilage to talk about them all I want. What she gained from screaming in my face then denying she did it was being told by her brother she was not welcomed in his house. So when good old step dad called to say that she had trees in her drive way. Well we did not go. Thinking she would hire some one to remove the trees. She goes to her neighbor who is in a wheel chair and whines about her situation and he comes in his wheel chair and cuts the trees up. Her husband makes $13,000 a month and she could have paid some one to do it instead of imposing on her neighbor. So if you thnk you are fouled up you have not me my in law family.
yes. my father is a b*stard, he treated me like cr*p when i was growing up. he was abusive, emotionally, and an addict. i hardly see him these days.
I do because i hv rough past with my father. My mother is hving her operation tis week and secretly i hope that she dies. But to tell you the truth, I really want to forget my unhappiness with them. I want to hav sweet memories starting today, I want to forgive them for their past mistakes and live happily ever after.
I think that most of us feel like were 4 years old again when we get home..I make it a policy not to spend more than four days with them and always make sure I have a hotel room or friends place to sleep at. I know lots of people who have the same experience somenhow it seems that our family will always see us as children no matter how old we get
Yeah on my dad's side of the family. They're a bunch of drunk potheads. Two of my aunts actually went on Jerry Springer and "fought" over some loser. One aunt ended up flashing the audience. It couldn't have been pretty. This side of the family is so horrible that they argue to the point of fist fights.. at Christmas gatherings. Damn rednecks!
Seriously, I'm the same way. I think there are more of us than you think. I have a very rough past, and I have had to leave behind quite a few of my toxic family members. I still have a few that are good to me, the rest of my life is full of people that I have chosen. They are my new family. I still feel crazy sometimes, but my life is so much better now.
Hell Yes!
Yes, I hate being around my family, with the exception of my grandparents, and of course, my kids. I think this probably happens to quite a few people who grew up, shall we say "NORMAL," but its obviously more likely if you've had a #&$^%* up past like mine. I wont go into sordid details except to say that there was abuse of all kinds and a bunch of drinking and drugs on my family's part. I obviously cannot say whether its the reason you are so #&$*%@ up, but I have mental health issues too, and part of that is the way I grew up and part of it is truly a chemical imbalance. Good luck
my sister is bipolar..when i was little..she would chase me around with knives and such..one time she beat me till i was unconscious..now that ******* ***** is in a ******* mental hospital.to this day i still hope to god she dies..i hate her so ******* much.she was such a *****!! now shes gone forever.at least till shes 18.. which is in 2 months.please god..i gotta get away.. wish me luck..
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