abUsE ?

tonite me and my mother were fighting.this is becoming a daily thing.its verbal and phyisical tonite she pushed me,grabbed me,and litterally choked me untill i coodnt breathe.shes verbally absusive pretty much everyday..can i do anything about this?.if so please help?.

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Talk to a school counselor or teacher. Don't let this go any further. I'm in my late 20s now, but I witnessed all through my teens my best friends mom going ballistic on her. alot of times for no reason!
I was so upset by it that I called 911 on her mother one day & they ended up getting state mandated help. Needless to say her mom had medical problems which were going untreated (she was bi-polar manic depressive).

Ever since getting help & medication her mother has done a 360 degree turnaround!

Please. please. please. seek help & understand that it's an arguous process, but the peace of mind & rewards are priceless.

Maybe you should call 911 fast!
Really! Do it! please...
tell her your tired of arguing with her and ask her if she will attend family counseling with you to help resolve your problems.
you need to seek out the child protection agency or social services.
this sounds like a very serious problem. You should try to reconciliate any differences and just tell her how you feel and be truthful. If she keeps on abusing you like that then you should report to authorities for further action because child abuse is a horrible thing and it provides more stress and depression. Now if you fight your mother, that is not right you should never hit your own mother. Have a one on one talk and try not to bring up any subject that is in conflict. Be truthful to yourself and your mom and I'm sure the problems will work themselves out. Good luck.
contact you locial police dept. now don't wait do it now before you get hurt bad!
that sounds pretty serious. you should call the police or someone because it could get dangerous
My first question to you is how old are you? I see from your profile that you have a fiance, so I am to assume that you are old enough to move out and be on your own. So why don't you get out of there?

You can certainly call the police and file assault charges if you are an adult or the child abuse hotline if you are a minor.
well that best thing you should do is talk to your mom, and tell her what you feel and how much you want to change things, you should start going to a family therapy with your mom and get help to get a better relationship
I feel so bad for you.. you need to go to someone you can trust and talk this over. A teacher, guidance counselor, pastor of your church, a friend's parent, or even your dad (if possible). You could always go to the police or child services. If you can talk to an adult you trust, they could do this for you. You really need to be removed from the home. I hope you can get out of this situation and stay with someone who will treat you the way you should be treated. There is no excuse for your mom to do this. Please talk to an adult you trust..
Wow. I would talk to another trusted adult about this. Maybe a teacher. Verbal abuse is one thing, but physical abuse it something that isn't tolerated. Sorry about what is happening to you. I hope you have someone you can trust in.
Its called child abuse. You can put her away for it.
Of course you can do something about it.
But keep in mind that it will be hard.

You can always call the police (BUT You will probably get more problems that you expect, its NOT fun getting your mother in trouble with the law, and may cause trouble with the rest of the family).

OR better yet .. you can try and talk to her and try to settle things between each other OR getting counseling.

Also you can ask someone that is close to you and your mother to talk to her and make her realize that its wrong and that it can escalate to something you BOTH will regret later.

Don't be afraid to talk to her its hard but one of you has to be the mature one. Don't be scared, after all she is your mother.

Good luck,

Pray to god he will help you . All you have to do is ask him
and have faith, he always answers you.
Yes you can do something about this. This is abuse.

You need to do whatever you can to stay safe. This means getting out of the house and going to stay with someone.
I know this sounds scary, but if you stay in this situation, the abuse will escalate and you could end up getting seriously hurt.

Your mom is sick, and she needs help. Getting her that help is not going to be easy. You may need to go through some really tough times in the process. There are just no easy answers to this. I suggest you call the national abuse hotline and talk to a counselor. It's anonymous (you don't have to give them your name) and it's free. Their phone number is: 1-800-799-7233

Here is their website.

http://www.ndvh.org/

Whatever you do.keep yourself safe.

I'm praying for you.
I am in a similar situation

well I was

as hard as it was you have to stick up for yourself. I locked myself in my room one night after i was thrown down the stairs and as she was trying to knock down my door I called the cops and put them on speaker phone

she backed off and then I called my dad and had him cme get me

and now i live with him and things are so much better

good luck hun
you seriously need to CALL 911 ! im not kidding! if she phiseclly hurt you then she can get called into court for that or even put in jail! call 911
call boys town usa. It is not just for boys. I think they can help you get a safe place to go.
My biggest concern right now is that you say you are suicidal. I can understand your feelings about your living situation, but I want to know more right now about your suicidal thoughts. Do you have a plan to hurt yourself? If you do, please contact a suicide hotline; emergency room or call 911.

There is a lot that you can do about your living situation. For one, there are emergency shelters that take in teens who have stressful living situations. Sometimes it is helpful just to get away from home for a day or two.

You can file charges on your mom, but you are going to need proof that she actually did this to you - such as pictures of bruises, witnesses, etc. I am not saying that she didn't do it - but law enforcement is going to want to see proof.

You can make a report to child protective services about the abuse that is going on. In reality though, they may not be able to do much since you are so close to being an adult.

You can go through the court system and become an emancipated adult, meaning you are responsible for yourself and can live alone. Of course, this would mean working and supporting yourself.

Whatever you do - get some help for yourself. You are only 17 years old and have your whole life ahead of you. Don't give up now, because things are so difficult at home. Some of the most brilliant and successful people in the world came from terribly abusive childhoods. You can have a great life.

Take care.
i no what u mean.I'm so sorry u have to go through this too.well both my parents abuse me and Ive attempted suicide many times and i used to cut.i even tried to run away but got the cops got me saying i was breaking curfew.
what i suggest to you(and what i should have done)
is tell someone you trust about this
then call 1-800-4-a-child and then press 1
then you can talk to someone about this
then they can help you
they can file an abuse clam
and get you to a nice loving SAFE home where nobody can hurt you anymore.
please get your self out of there
God Bless You and Good Luck
you know thats not good i would get the hell outta there i mean get a plan and than get outt if you dont have a plan than you gotta suck it up and deal with it
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