I'm angry at life, anyway I can change this attitude?
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However, I find your question extremely interesting and I couldn't resist writing you something. First of all, money are important when you don't have them; when you do they are not important anymore...This is well established...The fact that you have been in many relationships and still feel lonely just confirms the fact that you haven't met the right person yet; this situation is rather common, that is when someone feels lonely tries to get into relationships, find new "friends", and so on.Unfortunately most of the times this results in feeling even more lonely since the quality of all these relatioships is usually very low.Achieving satisfaction in life is a hard task, especially for the ones that have high expectations (which I suspect you do); individuals hard to compromise (including myself) have a hard time to find quality relatioships in this modern society which is driven mainly by quantity. Furthermore, if your personal standards are high and you have put a lot of effort in improving yourself, the task of finding someone "good enough" is becoming even harder...
Certain people have denied to compromise and decided to live alone, which is a respectable decision (although very hard to do since we are "social animals"). I am sure that you know about traditional "wise" people that are living by themselves (eg. Chinese masters).The further away you move from the average the harder it gets to establish any kind of interaction with "average" people.
At the end of the day, you will have to decide what is most important for you, what you really want...When it comes down to relationships with other people, then either you will have to compromise one way or the other in order to give yourself a good chance of finding someone or you can always keep your standards where they are and accept the risk that you may end up alone...Staying alone is necessarily a bad thing, it is just that very few people can really deal with it in the long term...
I wish you will eventually find your way.
of cource you can just get up make new friends and party
It sounds like you might need more help than Yahoo can provide. A counselor could help you sort through your feelings and get you on a more optimistic path. Just remember that you choose each day how you are going to live the rest of your life. You can choose tomorrow to start on a new path toward being content and happy!
I know you've probably heard this before, but maybe talking to a counsiler would help you sort out why your so angry, as for help with hopelessness, make a list of things that make you happy, cut each item out and put them in a hat, every time you feel things are hopeless pull an item out of the hat and think about it. Since you have trouble with public settings, why not try an online site or something for human connection?
My thoughts always is that there is always somebody else out there that has it worst off and is worst off than you. If you see and can clearly voice the things that you feel are wrong with you...try to get some help for those issues and go down the road of therapy? Possibly you need more positives in your life to get rid of the negatives? If that is the case - try to hang with people that are fun to be around and you should try to let that "private" barrier down once in awhile and enjoy yourself. It is fun to live on the edge once in a while. Good luck.
I have never understood why people are angry with life. I, personally, am always positive and uplift all around me. I have friends that are in your situation and understand not all people are happy all the time. When I feel unhappy or a friend calls that is not dealing with life I will take a day off from work, to break the routine, and go hiking and take them. I also work out at a gym that gives my mind and body the exercise needed to cope with life.
Change your routine in anyway you can from everyday life, i.e., the way you go to work, where you eat, what you do on days off. Seek a new way of life, i.e., in church, at local events, get involved with local functions such as politics, etc.
Remember, the opposite sex can help a lot just being friends. Seek friendship with someone you never thought of as a friend before.
It's not a matter of changing.
Why you suffer, is due to the denial of the present moment, consider this.
You've been seeking but never found. Stop searching on all levels > physical, mental, & spiritual.
i have the same feeling too. i am discontent with my life. i went into a wrong profession but i can't get out of it bc i need the money. it's torturing me day and night. i am trying so hard to find an exit but the harder i tried the larger obstacles that i'd have to face. some said when you face difficulties it's actually telling you it's probably not a right way to go and is trying to lead you to the right one, but staying in the same status would not help and i am sure i will get even more depressed. i know that i shouldn't feel like these at least i am healthy and i can chase for whatever i want, but yet the road is so difficult and lonely. i agree that it may bc of my high expectation to life. but most important is, i know it's bc i am lacking someone to love. an intimate relationship will help much when i know somebody is so much care for me, and love is the only way to my salvation.
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