I Accidently Cheated On My Girlfriend Last Week?

and I confessed to her, she hit me, ran out and broke up with me.

Then I saw her on campus yesterday all hugged up on some nerd. I was furious.

I'm just a vulnerable guy. Why am I always being punished by my girlfriends for following my instincts? This is so unfair!

I have feelings too, but women only care about themselves. They never consider my needs and get so upset just because sometimes in moments of vulnerability I have cheated on my girlfriend's by accident.

This is like the 6th time a girl broke up with me because of this.

What if someone punished women every time they cry during a movie? Wouldn't that be unfair?

Women do things and men do things. It's all natural and should be accepted. It's not fair to single out men and punish us for things that we are vulnerable about.

Answers:
You don't sleep with someone on "accident".its a mutual decision.

I give you props for being truthful with her about it, that was the right thing to do.but if you are just wanting to "go with your instincts" maybe you should go solo for a while.

Look. You screwed up bad. You lost your girl. It's your fault. Learn from it.
Want a cookie?
well what did u except you told her you cheated. now she is thinking smarter and future, money wise.
Keep it up dude, I have a feeling 20 years you'll be one of those married 7 times in three different states. (21 times) don't counting on the live ins, you can get the girls but you can't keep them. Be prepared to grow old by yourself.
Stop cheating. It's all your fault. Grow up and be a real man.
Preach on brother.
Grow up. When you have a girlfriend, you can't have sexual contact with other women. And don't tell me it's an accident, as you have said that you cheated on girlfriends, which means it's happened more than once.

If you can't be monogamous to someone, then don't get into a relationship with them! You're not vulnerable, you're immature and you don't deserve a girlfriend if you can't keep your parts to yourself.
Just because we are vulnerable doesn't mean we should always give in. There's no such thing as accidently cheating on a girl 5 times!

Cheating is not a vulnerability - it's a vice. And it's not something that any woman should put up with. If you want to get and keep a girlfriend, then you need to grow up.
lol.I hope for your sake that this is a fake question. If it's real..you need some serious counseling. LOL - 'accidently' cheating is just 'following your instinct'. Good one. And blaming the girl and calling her selfish...very humorous. Almost had me going there for a second - like the last 2 or 3 times you've asked similar questions.
If this is the 6th time, then you did not ACCIDENTALLY cheated on her. You couldn't have the 'accident' for 6 times. It has to be deliberate. You must change yourself and then you would not have been asking all these questions here. !
Can't wait for the new school term to start and for you to go back to school, then we'll be rid of all these childish 10-year old questions. Don't you have any friends you can talk to??
So let me get this straight..

You accidently cheated on your girlfriend

This is the 6th time it happened.

Dude, it was no accident.

You know the definition of insanity, right?

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
"Accidentally Cheated"

That's awesome! I guess you're just not ready for a girlfriend. No worries; you should just be screwing around!
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Cheating is not a accidental. An accident is while driving a car some one hits you or you hit them. Cheating is knowing what you're doing.
Cleaver choice of words.."accidently". It was a conscience decision that you made and are responsible for. And girls don't get off the hook. When they do what you have done they are called whores or tramps. You're best bet now is to own up to it and hopes your girlfriend will forgive you. Many would not in this situation. Good luck.
Well, think about it---if this has happened SIX times, then maybe you're the one doing something wrong. You can't stereotype all women because we're all different, just like all men are different. Your example of crying during a movie is a completely different situation.
And "following your instincts" isn't always the best thing to do. Apply some common sense to your instincts.look before you leap. And always consider your girlfriend's feelings when you "follow your instincts". Honestly, how would you feel? Men aren't neccesarily "vulnerable" to these things.not if you have self-control.
Good luck with your relationships in the future =)
1) You can't "accidentally" cheat
2) You have done this 6 times?
3) If you are not lying, then you are a serial molestor and need to be in jail to sort your priorities out.
You can always be a Monk.
You don't cheat "accidentally". there's no such thing! And you say you've done it 6 times?! You need to stop!
You sir, are f*cked up, and are TOTALLY to blame for what you did.
You were the one that cheated. Quit whining you baby.
Get over it and move on. Next time control yourself. You are a human, not an animal. "Accidents" dont happen if you use your brain.
Need a tissue?
Much as I dislike saying this, pal, but YOU have some serious issues! 6 times? An accident you say. did you think it was her? Women who cry b/c of a movie is in NO WAY the same as your "vulnerable" state of mind. Get help - or just grow up and accept the fact you're a player and these women are very, very temporary. I'm sure that's how they see it. I say: Screw the world while you still can!! lmao!!
My guess here would be because you're not stating when starting a relationship that you're not a monogamous person. If you enter a relationship with someone and do not implicitly state you're not monogamous, the assumption in most societies (I would say Western, but Chinese, Japanese, Indian, and African societies also commonly follow this rule) is that you will be monogamous. There is a serious ethical difference between chiding someone for showing emotion and breaking an assumed vow to another person.
How do you accidentally cheat? You made a conscious decision to do what you did;how is that an accident? Sounds like you need to examine yourself and accept responsibility for choices you make. You can't always act upon needs and instincts. You need to mature a little more before seriously dating anyone.
dude six times. dang i could see 1nc or even twice but 6 times. sooner or later she was gonna leave u. its differnt from crying in a movie. u must be in total denial. U DONT CHEAT. at least be happy she is with someone who makes her happy and treats
her like a woman and not a piece of meat. also u cant "accidentaly cheat"
I'm just wondering how a guy 'accidently' cheats..I mean is there just some woman bending over, the guy trips and ooops! pop goes the weasel?
You are sitting here talking about her considering your needs.women only care about themselves, how can you compare infidelity to crying at a freaking movie?
I am really hopeing this is like some kind of tongue in cheek thing.
If you are screwing up royally, thats not singling out, even more so when you accidently screw someone else 6 times.
It's not an accident, so grow up, admit that you are more interested in going around screwing who ever you feel like.
She did the right thing. Maybe someday you will grow up and knock it off and realize the value of being with one person.
You have feelings too but "women only care about themselves" coming from a dufus who cheated on his lady "by accident" more than once "6x"? And you want to discuss fairness?
In all reality, if your lady took you back after cheating 6x then she is as much an idiot as you are. You clearly have no respect for her, yourself or those other women that you sought out to cheat with. I do not feel sorry for you at all.

Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Crying at a movie is an emotional response whereas cheating is a conscious choice. You are vulnerable to cheating? Then you are a weak and dishonorable man.
If you are trying to get sympathy for cheating on your lady for the 6th time and mad that she dumped you, what the Fu*k are you thinking d.i.c.k.w.e.e.d?
I would beat your **** and then dump you too. Why not run back to one of those broads that you cheated with Smart Guy?
You are a loser! Get outta here!
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