feels like my lifes being manipulated and controlled..i live in a noisey antisocial area and whenever a group?

of youths walk past me, if they look at me, i look timidley away, and im sick of it, feels like im being intimidated..im 29

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Perhaps you need some techniques to handle yourself when you feel intimidated. If you look away timidly, you will appear vulnerable. On the other hand, if you keep your chin up, walk with determination and don't hesitate, you will appear to be strong.

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This is something I know first hand about, and grappled with for most of my youth.The answer somewhat comes from age and experience in life. One must find their OWN character, moral values, interests, and self confidence. Of course, easier said than done. However, find out who you REALLY are and be that person from the inside out. Hold your head high, speak intelligently, foster friendships with people YOU have respect for, and DON"t worry about what other people think. I never listened to my mom's advice from 25 years ago, until recently, and believe me, mom DOES know best!. The advice is: You have NO control about what other people think and how they act, you ONLY have control of your own responses and reactions to life's very
difficult periods. Don't be pulled into some paranoid reaction to OTHER people. They can only make you feel bad about yourself if you have low self esteem. Work on that really hard, every day, in every circumstance and you will undoubtedly be happier, more relaxed, and more able to reject "manip[ulations" by others whom, in reality
try to intimidate because they, themselves are unhappy, weak, and have a need to bully others. Stand tall. Do not
invest useless energy by indulging these people who are not even your friends. Individualism first and always.
Do YOUR interests. The nice, interesting and loyal friends will appear!
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