Does anyone realize that it hurts to be called names?

Many people call me names & it really hurts my feelings. They call me fat, ugly, mental, & crazy.

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Honey, its not just calling names that hurts.its any kind of bullying. I know because I was bullied big time in school. When schools start stepping up and putting an end to all this.it will stop. Think about all the school shootings and suicides thats happened because someone teased another student. These things follow you into adulthood. Most of the time, the reason why someone hurts another person is because that person hates themselves too. There should be help for bullies and victims of bullies in schools. There would be less violence in schools and less suicides. I know it does hurt but you cant let them get to you. The only person that can carry you or hurt you.is you. If you know you are a good person and you work hard, you will show those people in the end that you can win. People have their own reasons for calling names, but you are responsible for how you respond to those people. Just show them by being a good person, that you are stronger and smarter than they will ever be. Most bullies dont make it, really. They are human just like you. Its what you think of yourself that matters. Show them that you dont care what they think. I promise that in the end, you will get the last lauph. But you have got to not let anyone get to you. Good luck.

ignore
DO THEY CALL YOU BY YOUR REAL NAME THAT WOULD REALLY HURT
went through that just ignore them and dont make a big deal out of it.
yea it does hurt but not to much
okay crazy
yes, i know how it feels. i've delt with that for a long time. even if you are fat or ugly, it's not at all cool for anyone to be calling you that. it's disrespectful
Of course they know it hurts your feelings, which is why they do it. Some people are just cruel and want to hurt others in an effort to make themselves feel better, more powerful, etc. Just ignore them and when they realize you really don't give a crap what they say, they will move on.
Of course, that's why they do it.
that's not nice. you are a beautiful person. don't believe them
Sorry to hear that, hon.some of the best friends I've ever had in my life have been fat, ugly, mental and crazy.I fit right in.
Good luck.
i know kids can be so mean i fell so sorry for u just ignore those low life BASTARDS
then u need to change


lose wweight

do some surgery:)

and forgot about the crazy:)
It hurts because you see yourself this way too, and you don't like that you think you're this way.

If your happiness depends on what others do,
don't you think you have a problem to deal with?

I've been where you are, my mom called me terrible things.
It takes work to go within, to leave the outer world and find out what's really true.

When you finally start doing that, you'll realize what you're going through has been helpful on your path.

What words would YOU use to describe yourself?
sticks and stones honey.what matters is what you think of yourself.or you can hold them down while I kick 'em in the teeth. try to be nice, but sometimes it takes a little violence to make you feel better
Of course they know it hurts. They're mean to cover up their own insecurities. Everyone is called names sometime or other.but some are too immature to try to remember that feeling when dealing with others.
People are really low! Just ignore the haters. .
Show them that you're better then them
Yeah it hurts but you have to try to ignore it even though it might be tough. If it's people you know, tell them to stop calling you those names or tell them something back at them, keeping it bottled up inside you might hurt you even more.
Whoever you are running with, change your crowd. Whatever you do, don't react. Hold your head up high and walk away.
yes i no wat its like one time wen i was younger i was wearing a shirt that said "daddys lil girl" and my friend (supposedly my friend) said it should b "daddys fat gurl" and i was realle hurt and ppl make fun of others all the time u have to get through it dint care wat others think u can rise above them they only say that bc they r insecure or jelous just ignore them if u react wen they do that they will just keep doing it
Yes!! I have been called those and it is not right. Usually people say things they do not mean when they get insecure and mad about not getting their way---in family relationships. But in the friendship realm or at work, I would take even more offense for some reason. I would have to take some action there.
i dont know how this feals but i would tell them to **** off
Not usually until they've been called something by someone they care about. It usually takes getting your own feelings hurt before you realize how painful something as simple as words can be.
I am sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you.
I hope you realize that this will go away if you stop reacting to it. Try not to let those jerks see it bothering you. One good thing will come out of it- YOU will never make fun of people because you know how it feels. YOU will have what it akes to reach out to someone who is in your situation right now. Hang in there. Also: don't believe what they say. God does not make junk!
Yes, it does hurt to be called names. You shouldn't have to put up with their behavior. Try to ignore them, or laugh it off, or talk to someone about it, ok?
I wish people would realize that too. I have been called mental, a freak, hyper, a nerd, and even homosexual. Don't they know that if this gets worse, people may have thoughts of suicide?

If people start calling you names, dont be afraid to tell someone. Going over their heads is usually the best option. I suggest that you avoid these people. Show them that you are a better person than they are by ignoring them. Dont let them get you down, they have absolutely no right to insult you like this.
calling names is so mean
people that tease and name call are people with low self esteem, you should probably feel a litte sorry for them b/c they are losers who have no other means of communication with other humans.
Sticks and stones.
It may hurt, however you need to realize that it's a Two-Way Street. What have you done to encourage the name calling? Are you offensive or obnoxious? Do you whine all the time? Are you constantly playing the "drama card"?
yes people realize that calling someone names does hurt, the sad thing is they really don't care at times. everyone has been called a name whether they know it or not. you are not alone in this; there are lots of people out there who have been called those same name and even worse name. you have to stand up for your self and tell those people where to go and that you don't give a flying rat's *** what they think about you, cause their opinions don't mean squat.
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