I'm 21 years old, I suffer from social anxiety disorder and I never had a girlfriend, should i?

tell someone that i'm going to date that i never had a girlfriend or shouldn't I? How would she react if i tell her that i never had a girlfriend?

Answers:
It is noones' business but yours..don't start putting thoughts of suspicion in their head.just go out and have fun like you've been doing it for years..you really need to get to know someone before you finally admit that and make sure theyre not the type of person to take that information and make fun of you.Take your time and keep those most personal things inside for now.if she is the right girl.she might even be admitting the same thing to you after ten dates or so lol.good luck sweetie, you have your whole life ahead of you.

Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:

-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?

One more joke:

A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.

Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
No don't say that, it'll scare her away.
I wouldn't tell her. I would just have a good chat with myself and step out in faith that it will all be okay. Sometimes if we tell ourselves it is going to be okay, then it is. But if we ponder on the negative side then it only makes it worse. Good luck.
She would point and laugh. It happens all the time dude.
If this is who I think it is, she already knows. Don't worry about it, why the hell would it come up in conversation?

If she asks, tell her the truth. If not, keep your mouth shut.
hey if u two r trully interested in eachother, well i gues u can just tell her. There is no reason of hiding who u r , n if u really get to know eacchother n r friends o whatever, u ccan confide in her ur problem, a problem once shared is half solved. All the best
I think you are very lucky pal. You are much like me but anyway my answer to this kind of question will be Oh !! Yes my Grand mother is a very close girlfriend of mine. Nothing to worry about it just chill!!
Tell her. Be honest from the start. If you don't, you'll regret it sooner or later.
Be front and center with the truth.

Then you don't have to remember what you said the last time.

You will either be accepted or rejected.

Either way, you take it like a man, whether you feel like one right now or not. Believe it or not, living is a GROWTH process.

You heard the story: "No guts, no.etc."

Live it, love it. I mean the process. It will bring you to good places and develop your character.

But you must be willing to take the chance.

BTW, social anxiety is just a fancy label for Pharma establishment to peddle addictive poisons. It begins with each one of us, pulling our head inside our shell once, and find it's warm and cozy in there.

Now go, friend.

Live!.

(and learn).
well that meens u r a verjen girls love to b the first in your life and dont worry about what she thinks just ask her and tell her that shes the first girl u dated after u go out with her
Have you been officially diagnosed with SAD, or is this simply a "self-diagnosis"? You need to be sure that that's what you have. It could be something else completely.
I'm not sure if you're planning on asking someone out, or if you already have, but either way, it shouldn't make any difference to someone if you've never had a girlfriend before. So what? And it really shouldn't come into the conversation until you've dated someone for a little while. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but it's also not a dating turn-on. Keep it to yourself until you know the girl well.
Tough
Don't say anything, just go out & enjoy yourself.
Wait untill you get to know her better before you tell her everything.
I have anxiety also and I was 22 before I had my first boyfriend. If she does ask I think you should just be up front about it and explain to her why you didn't have any GFs. I lied to my first BF about having pervious BFs because I was embarrassed but I wish I hadn't. It was a hard lie to keep up. He would ask question about this (fake) BF and I had to make up stuff up. I think if we had gotten really serious he probably would have found out anyway. So why bother lying about it? If she can't accept you for who you are she doesn't deserve you in the first place!
listen, don't talk to her about you. take an interest in her. first of all, she'll love it, second, its a good idea in general, and third, everyone on the planet earth has a social anxiety, so don't ever mention that again. to anyone. not even your dumb doctor who diagnosed you.
You didn't date yet because all the while you were looking for the most beautiful girl on the earth. And you found her.
i would say to tell them it will help explain any awkwardness you feel as far as how they take it its up to the individual and how understanding they are
I wouldn't tell her until you feel comfortable enough with your relationship with her and know you have her trust. If she is the right one for you then it won't be an issue and having that kind of relationship will help you with your social anxiety and help you form good relationships with other people too.
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