am i gay? i don't want to be one and need someone for support story?
i'm 16 yr old and have always been popular with friends. however i'm addicted to watching how guys masturbate and the way they ejaculate. i hate this and want to stop it! also i don't know exactly which i actually like ( there seem to be so many)!!, i just don't know who while my guy friends all have someone in mind. someone please help me or i'll get a nervous breakdown. sometimes i just feel i'm not gay then i'm confused either ways i want to have a gorgeous wife and children. is it normal?
Answers:
Ehi, don't worry! It is normal a bit of confusion during adolescence. For example I'm 17 and last year I had a boyfriend, but I'm not gay I only wanted to try because I was confused. Don't worry, ok?
Maybe you are just confused, are you attracted to men sexually, or do you find yoursellf more attracted to woman, if you long to have a beautiful wife and kids, then that doesn't sound gay, but are you trying to convince your self that you want a woman because that's what's normal, because then you will not be happy. You should try to talk with a councillor or someone.
If you're worried about this there is counseling that can help you bring your feelings in line with your values. Check out these websites:
http://www.narth.com
http://www.exodus.to
http://www.traditionalvalues.org/resources/index.php
somehow its normal, but what are you? youre a guy not a gay!!, GOD created only man and woman, you should appreciate what gender GOD given you, the best solution is try not to watch how guys masturbating, just say "im not a gay" and you should pray to GOD to help you and thanks him for what his done.
It's possible buddy, but you are probably going through a stage all young boys go through. Don't worry, you're not losing the plot. You'll be fine. If you're really worried about this, check out the sites the other answerer gave you. It's also something you could talk to your Dad about perhaps, or, even your doctor. Don't worry, he's heard it all before. You have done the right thing asking this question, and it took a lot of guts. But whatever you do, don't think you're abnormal or there's something wrong with you. Hey, did you know that most adult men drop their eyes and check out the guy in the next cubicle? You're going to be just fine.
Oh sweetie!! Don't worry about it, you are only 16, everyone goes through a confused stage where you don't know what you want. The sexual world is new and you don't know which way to go, you will find a lot of people go through the same thing, they just won't admit it
If you are gay theres nothing wrong with that which you will see in time but for the moment don't stress out too much about it, you will realise in time okidoke? :)
c'mon let's put that to a test.lol
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I'm 44 and vividly recall being scared to death that I might be gay when I was 16. While masturbating I once had a fantasy of being in a huge ring of guys, each one having anal sex with the one in front of him. I guess I was bored fantasizing about the sexy, bra-less girls in tube tops at school. I came immediately and it scared the daylights out of me! I buried the fantasy and bottled up my anxiety until I was in my 20s and in therapy. I am a happy, monogamous hetero, but the point is: please find someone you trust and can talk to (your doctor, maybe) or continue to ask stuff on line. Don't bottle up your concerns, and don't listen to people who say you just need to pray to THE LORD. Rubbish!
i think your not gay, its just curiosity, but better learned to control yourself. even if you are gay then you can be straight aslong you control. its just hormone imbalance coz ur still at adolesence period.
Hey man, dont worry bout it, it's normal to feel the way u do right now. I'm 19, and I used to..HELL, I still do at times lol. But its not just u, it's mainly ur hormones. And yes, it is very normal, so dont even worry about it, it'll go away eventually. :)
do u get erection while watching male masturbation?if yes ur gay
you are confused about your sexuality and the only thing you can do is to stop the way ypu are behaving and start acting normal . watch real porm with females and get a girl friend
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