is my boyfriend gay?

we have been together two years get on great hes caring and affectionate but he will only have anel sex and receicve oral sex but wont give it back is this normal or do i need to worry

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tell him if he doesn't have sex "the other way" you will think he is gay. see what he does.


Your enough to turn any guy gay.
..You need to go and get tested!
Well duh...he's always been gay!
he probably sees u as a guy so he probably is gay
Maybe your vagina looks horrid & disgusting.

IT'S

YOUR

VAGINA

NOT HIM

IT COULD LOOK WEIRD AND STD FILLED.
Wow. I'm speechless. I don't know what to tell you. Maybe you should just ask him.
Maybe,but if ya still excite him that means he still likes ya! i mean if things are well in ya relationship then ya safe :-)
Well there oculd be many explanations, but it really doesn't look like he's straight to me. Do you have any other reasons to think he's gay?
If it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck, then it's a duck. Figure it out, the man is gay.
Lets hope he has not read this, i would be gutted
dont worry,he's gay if he wont give you regular sex or evan oral.whatta homo!! first warning sign is he likes the anal too much,try sticking ur fingers up his ****.bet he luvs it.
uhh I dont know.. and you allowed to be treated like this for two years!!
Amazing what women will do. I mean that part of your body is exit ONLY!!
You need to ditch the boyfriend because it looks like to me he using you to fulfill some crazy fantasy.
maybe he loves you not sex
I was once told by my moms good friend who is also gay that when he was bi (bi dudes are only confused he says) that he'd only give anal / recieve head.
I think he is gay or he had so much natural sex that he got borred from that and was in hunger of anal and oral sex. so find out by your own what is the fact.OK hon shammi1070@yahoo.com
He probably dont wanna see ur face notice both positions he is not looking at u. i know its mean but i'm just saying.
I would ask him why - if you have been together that long, try to talk to him and say how you are feeling - like why don't we ever have "normal intercourse"? Why won't you please me like I please you?

I mean he could be gay - or he could have some kind of thinking related to a woman's vagin* that makes him not want to - you know what? I don't know - he may be gay. You have to talk to him and if you guys can, go see a relationship or sex therapist.

I am suprised you have been with him two years like this - I would have asked right away - I would not have done anal before "regular" ever with a guy - so talk to him.. find out why and if you have and he doesn't tell you, tell him that you feel like he may not really be attracted to women because of this and that you want a bf that will love all of you - your whole body and please you like you do him- that isn't right. Sex isn't everything but it is how you physically express your love and what he is doing - or not doing, is not right. Be direct and just tell him how you feel - at this point, there is no other way to approach it. Or, tell him that there is no more anal or bjs and then see what happens and don't let it happen at all. But I would talk to him - why waste more time?
Your boyfriend is just a beast. He just likes to recieve. That is not gay at all. The only weird thing is that.actually there is nothing weird bout this situation.
I think you turned him that way or to another girl that you dont now about be careful
If he's with you then he must not be gay then. OR you are making him turn gay.
Sounds like he does not want to get you pregnant. As for the not wanting to give oral sex, I think the rest of the male world think he is a nut job. giving oral to a girl is way better than dying and going to heaven.
Lots of guys enjoy that kind of stimulation and are very straight. If he looks at other guys with that "look" then thats a good hint. If he seems to be avoiding contact with you period thats a dead give away. This is coming from my own experiance, coming out to my girl was the hardest thing in the world. If your really that concerned discuss it with him. If hes worth keeping everything will work out. if he dumps you, he wasnt worth the energy.
I actually have a friend with a similiar situation only in her case there is enough additional signs that he probably is gay and simply deeply uncomfortable with coming to terms with it. In your case, I dont know. Have you asked him straight out in an accepting way? Are there other indications that would lead you to believe this? Are you prepared to deal with it if he is? Are you satisfied with the way your sex life is with him? Because that is important! - for you to feel honored, desired, and satisfied as a woman.
Its not exactly "normal" in that I think its rather unusual and yet there are many many "unusual" preferences about sex that people have. We are all different. he may also have some serious phobia about pregnancy, who knows? Ask him. COMMUNICATION is key. Good Luck
Does E=Mc2?
cant say
Hell he's not gay he's just been spoiled. If you want another test you could buy a cool sex toy and see where all he wants to put it.
well if you let him he will carry on doing it. but if you want a change i will please all three of your holes
yes,there is something wrong.he may be worried about you getting pregnant if he has it natural.you should insist him to give you foreplay orally.try to avoid anal.it is dangerous.may cause aids to both of you.oral is still safer but not totally safe.
OMG, don't have anal sex, that is where lawyers come from...
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