My guy can't stay hard...?
It takes so much work to get him up and then once he is I have about 2 minutes till he's done or until his erection is gone again. I know its not that he's "not attracted to me" because he is the instigater. Maybe poor circulation? Hes only 27. I don't want to ditch him because of sex because he really is a great guy. Anyone relate? Any advice?
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strongly suggest that your boyfriend see a urologist ASAP. he can test for low testosterone levels, poor blood circulation, etc, that may be causing ED, erectile dysfunction. explain to your b/f that at one time or another, it happens to most men. other men won't admit to it. the urologist may suggest that your b/f take erection dirges such as viagra levitra, cialis, or muse (a suppository injection in through the head of the penis, rather painful). also, he may recommend using a penis pump or needle injections into the base of the penis. The important thing is there is help available. show your b/f this response as a way of getting the conversation rolling. tell him i said he should not feel any guilt over this issue. it's just another affliction, like a cold or pneumonia, that nature throws our way. relax, see a urologist, be patient, continue playing around, and maintain a steady, honest conversation with your g/f/ it really is a problem for both of you and together you and she should work to correct it.
good luck! don't give up hope.
Maybe he is into guys.
dont tell us about ur life in that way
Send him to a doctor to rule out a physical health problem at the root of his limpness. If he checks out a-ok, dump him.
go to the Dr.
Have the Dr check his testosterone level (simple blood test) that is a symptom. Good luck.
Have him see a urologist. It sounds like it could be a physical problem. Going sooner rather than later will preserve his potency for the years to come. Have him run rather than walk to a doctor.
what matter is that you are too attractive for him.
during the sexual act, before ejaculation, thinking on other stuffs that make him relaxing.
moreover, if the first time is 2 minutes, the followings are exponentially increasing, so keep on waiting and have fun ;-)
It could be many different issues, from stress up to and including diabetic side-affects. Bottom-line, he needs to see a doctor.
Well,ZINC in some form or other is "supposed" to be ok for mens sexual welbeing-but lemme ask-has this happened often,all throughout your relationship-or before with other women too?Had a mate once,had similar prob-with different women--zinc and certain "exercises"(to which i was not privy!)worked well-he went from 6mins to 1-1/2hrs after about a month or so-new g/f couldn't cope-he took sooo long,she got bored and took off-can't win can you:-/
for him to be 27 i would suggest that he see a doctor
He needs to see a doctor.This is not normal for a man of his age.I don't mean to scare you but it sounds like a medical problem that needs attention as soon as possible.
I think he's nervous. Did he has any experience? Ask him if he'd the same problem before. If so, he needs to see doctor and find out the reason. Take some time and do some foreplay and don't rush him.
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