advise needed please?

ive bein with my bf now for 3 years we've not actually managed to get physical yet, he's can never get an erection and now after 3 years im worried theres a huge prob

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Maybe you need to sit down with your boyfriend and have a chat with him.Explain how your feeling but let him know there is no pressure here.I am sure your boyfriend might be having these thoughts too,men don`t generally share how they feel as freely as us,but a gentle prod sometimes helps them to open up..Good luck.

AFTER 3 YEARS? ya shoulda checked this problem out before now! do you's HAVE ANY sex drive??
you really need to get your fella to see a doctor.
just calm down and ask him about it. chill
Tell him to see a doctor. He is probably impotent.
After THREE years? Does "co-dependant" ring a bell here? Does "enabling" ring a bell here? He needs to see a doctor, you need to see a therapist.
IT is a bit of a long time to be together with not actually getting physical is it because you are too young....maybe that is why nothing has happened but then again if not why have you waited this long to raise the issue (no pun intended) now..you should have a chat with him i.e. where are you going with this relationship if there is no intimacy.
Wow. thats a long time u know! Ive been avin a go at mine for havin the same problem for about 3 months now! I think that he should want to pleasure you and therefor make a visit to the doctors. He'd do it if he wants you that bad, and u have waited 3 years!
Maybe you don't turn him on?
try a couple of wk with just foreplay, massages, kissing, stroking etc without thinking about sex and gradually build it up
90% of erection problems r psychological.He needs help.U can see Ur doctor to arrange for hormonal tests to exclude medical problem.best of luck.
maybe he is not aroused enough or perhaps you should play with him more. He may have a high tolerance to foreplay.
tell him to goto dr's. for advice. i had the same problem awhile back. it was just stress and all crap i had gone through in the past. The less stressed both of u r ther better. I found talking with my partner helped so much. also aromatherapy oils. lavender/pathouli and cederwood. help relax and destress. good luck
Sammi does he ever voice concern over this to you? If he is anxious, try and persuade him to visit his doctor, to seek advice.

It could be that he is a of a nervous disposition and needs to be reassured that everything is going to be alright for both of you.

All the very best to you and try not to worry too much.

And you know there's more than one way to skin a cat. If you get my drift.
3 years.he as a problem, and so do you.get help
u must go to the dotor about this as they is something wrong maybe not ph but maybe meta and you should be enjoying sex as it the most beautful thing in the world and i feel sorry that your missing out
UH doctor please! 3 years and no sex cuz he cant get up..wow thats a problem hunny
don't worry, tell him go for surgery
He needs to talk to a doctor, however embarressed he may be, it's got to be better than how he's feeling now. You are wonderful to have stayed with him so long, it must be so frustrating for you both. Please encourage him to see a doctor, it's in both your interests.
He's obviously got a medical problem, how old is he? go to see the doctor or a sex thearapist.
You deserve a medal for lasting this long. Get to the docs quick and then enjoy yourselves..
He sounds impotent and he really needs to see his doctor.
I should think so after three years maybe you are not doing something right or he needs help
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